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    gigiminer

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    I said it...

    Post by gigiminer on Tue Sep 15, 2015 12:52 pm

    I'm not sure which audio it was or exactly how it was phrased, but somewhere in my listening I recall something along the lines of people pleasers not being likely to say that there's anything wrong. "I'm okay" is SOP.

    Today, a FB (and old time) friend asked me "Are you okay?" Normally, this kind of question would be met with the standard, "I'm fine" sort of response. Today, however, I said, "No, I'm not, but I will be soon." That's sort of a milestone for me. I never let anyone onto difficulties in my life. I didn't even go to the "I'm fine" response in my brain. And I'm rather pleased with myself.

    The narc is leaving very soon - whether cooperatively or by my making it so. I guess all of my hard work is paying off if this basic programming is getting some needed adjustment.

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    Neowuf

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    Re: I said it...

    Post by Neowuf on Fri Sep 18, 2015 2:41 am

    Congratulations gigiminer, get control of your life soon as you can and hold to it ^-^

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