I grew up with a narc father, had a 17 year marriage to a covert narc, then a 2 year relationship to someone on the spectrum. The last man I saw for a year had some narc-y issues, but is as close to neurotypical as a I have been. Where do I go from here? My picker is getting better, but I don't know what the next step is. I have labeled myself as undateable, until I break the pattern and can have a normal relationship. But like Richard said in one of the last podcasts, I feel very flat not having a new "master" to spend all my time and energy on.