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    Things that Trigger me

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    Healcura

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    Join date : 2016-04-01

    Things that Trigger me

    Post by Healcura on Tue May 24, 2016 6:29 pm

    Hi,  This week I learned that people asking me what I want is a trigger because I wasn't asked what I wanted for 10 years by the narcissist. It is frustrating to not be able to answer a question. I have to think about it and even then I do not generate an answer often times. I feel like I have to get to know myself. Is this common?

    Aaron6200

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    Join date : 2016-07-20
    Location : Portland, Oregon

    Re: Things that Trigger me

    Post by Aaron6200 on Wed Jul 20, 2016 11:47 pm

    How are they asking it? I noticed that that triggers me, when they yell "WHAT DO YOU WANT?" I've been seeking mental health counseling, and I'm at a counseling office. To me, it seems fairly obvious what I want. Or after I ask a favor from a narcissist, like "Can you get my jacket?" then they yell "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?" well... I could repeat myself, but I think that's the narc's way of saying no. What do I want? For everything to not result in a fight, and I want people to do their job. Simple Simon.

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